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Updated August 10th, 2018 at 14:56 IST

Need tips to flirt perfectly? Here are a few rules used by some real-life people!

Ever heard that flirting forms the basis of your relationship? Well, It keeps the charm and the spark of the relationship alive and lets you have a little fun as a couple.

Reported by: Radhika Sarkar
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Ever heard that flirting forms the basis of your relationship? Well, It keeps the charm and the spark of the relationship alive and lets you have a little fun as a couple. But, you need to find a perfect balance in flirting and not go too overboard with it because then you might come across as a player, which you certainly do not want to. 

Also, it is very important to not going around flirting with everybody, just to sharpen your game. However, many people really get nervous when the topic of flirting comes up and so treat flirting like another conversation you are having with somebody. 

So, while flirting, here are a few rules that you should remember! 

Don't come across as too strong:

Just be relaxed and treat this like just another meeting, you do not want to flirt too much and push the person off the edge. Just start with a light and casual conversation, ask him/her about their plans of the day and then slowly ease into it. Also, flirting doesn't mean cheesy romantic conversations, you can also bring in humour and witty comments which will in return impress her. 

Know when to cut it out
Sometimes people just do not know when to stop, so know when to cut it out. If he/she is feeling a little uncomfortable, just stop at that moment and do not nudge further. It is just the beginning so take your time and be careful how far you take your flirting to. 

Don't go too overboard: 
Now, if you hit it off with the person, know where to draw the line. In this age, there where everything is pretty much digital, and you can find practically anything and everything on the internet, and just getting straight to business might seem like a good option, but do not do that. 

In order to make this article, more relatable and helpful, we did a poll of a few people talking about the things that should be kept in mind while flirting 

" Do not bombard her with cheesy and romantic lines, she will definitely not like it. Especially if you are just getting to know her, " says Manthan Rane, a 21-year-old college student 

There are notions these days, that if the person flirts too much that all he is very casual and does not want to take his time. And, so make sure you do not come across as that. 

"For me, you should never flirt on a first date, just try to have a nice and simple conversation and see if you can actually hit it off, " says Cristina Varghese, a 23-year-old working professional  

"Say nice things to her, calling her beautiful and gorgeous counts as flirting and it will also give you a +1" says Yash Mehta, a 24-year-old working professional. 

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Published July 3rd, 2018 at 08:48 IST

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