Updated 3 November 2020 at 18:24 IST

Ira Khan reveals she was sexually abused at 14 in new IG video

Ira Khan shared another video from her 'Lets Start Conversation' series. In this one, she spoke about being sexually abused at the age of 14. Take a look.

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Aamir Khan’s daughter Ira Khan had recently spoken about being diagnosed with depression and her experience with the condition on World Mental Health Day. The 23-year-old shared another video on her Instagram, where she spoke at length about her privilege. She even spoke about being sexually abused at the age of 14 and how her parents’ divorce was amicable and it did not traumatise her.

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Aamir Khan’s daughter Ira Khan talks about being sexually abused at 14

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

HINDI VERSION - LINK IN BIO. I never spoke to anyone about anything because I assumed that my privilege meant I should handle my stuff on my own, or if there was something bigger, it would make people need a better answer than “I don’t know.” It made me feel like I needed a better answer and until I had that answer, my feelings weren’t something I should bother anyone else with. No problem was big enough to ponder too long about. What would anyone do? I had everything. What would anyone say? I had said it all. I still think there’s a small part of me that thinks I’m making all this up, that I have nothing to feel bad about, that I’m not trying hard enough, that maybe I’m over reacting. Old habits die hard. It takes me feeling my worst to make myself believe that it’s bad enough to take seriously. And no matter how many things I have, how nice to me people are because of my dad, how nice to me people are because they love and care about me... if I feel a certain way, a certain not nice way, then how much can rationally trying to explain these things to myself do? Shouldn’t I instead get up and try and fix things? And if I can’t do that for myself? Shouldn’t I ask for help? . . . #mentalhealth #privilege #depression #repression #divorce #sexualabuse #letstalk #betterlatethannever #letitout #depressionhelp #askforhelp

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Ira opened up about being sexually abused when she was 14 and also said that it was her parents who helped her get out of the situation. In her IGTV, she said, “When I was 14, I was sexually abused. That was a slightly odd situation in the sense that I didn't know whether the person knew what they were doing, I sort of knew them. It wasn't happening every day. It took me about a year to be sure that they knew what they were doing and that's what they were doing. I immediately wrote my parents an email and got myself out of that situation.” She added that the incident didn’t really scare her.

She said, “I wasn't scared. I felt like this wasn't happening to me anymore and it is over. I moved on and let go. But it was again not something that has scarred me for life and something that could be making me feel as bad as I was feeling when I was 18-20 years old. “

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Speaking about her parents' divorce, Ira said, "When I was small, my parents got divorced. But that didn't seem like something that would traumatise me because my parents' divorce was amicable. They are friends, the whole family is still friends. We are not a broken family by any means. My parents were very good about being parents to Junaid and me, even after divorce and when people would say 'Oh I am so sorry to hear about your parents' divorce, I would be like 'What are you talking about? It is not a bad thing. Another privilege I didn't realise. It could be something that could scar you. It didn't scar me. I don't remember most of it but I didn't feel like my parents' divorce is something that could bother me. So that can't be the reason why I am feeling so sad."

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Through the video, Ira has tried to convey how she did not talk about her problems and tried to deal with them on her own. She mentioned that she thought they were too small and there wasn’t a big enough reason for her to feel low or cry all the time. She explained how she felt that since she did not have the answers to why it was happening, nobody could help her. The 23-year-old started this series of videos to make people understand how important it is to talk and have a conversation about what they are going through.

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Published By : Arundhati Vivek

Published On: 3 November 2020 at 18:24 IST